How to Survive the Holidays Without Your Kids

Posted by: Surviving and Thriving Single Parenthood on: November 25, 2020

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    The holiday season is upon us, and while this may be a happy time for families around the world single moms everywhere may be dreading it and wondering how they will get through it while their kids are celebrating with their other parent.  My first Christmas apart from my kids was the worse; I spent the whole weekend walking in and out of their bedrooms, balling my eyes out.  You might be experiencing a sense of loss and anguish; I can tell you that it will get better with time; let me tell you how.

First: you will need to let go of the past and start new traditions.  My kids and I started celebrating Thanksgiving when they got back home and exchanged gifts on Christmas Eve.

Second: show yourself some compassion; it is okay to be sad, but do not sit around all day wallowing in your sadness.  Use this time alone to give yourself a facial or manicure, sleep in, or just rest and watch your favorite movies.

Third: Do not shut yourself away from family and friends. Even though you will miss your kids, there are still things in your life to be grateful for; giving thanks will help you get through the day, and it is also a great way to expedite your healing process.

Holidays are lovely, but they can be emotionally challenging if you are a single mom; acknowledge how you feel and know that you have the power to let your sadness win or find joy.  The way you approach the holidays will have a significant impact on the memories your kids will create. Wouldn’t it be better for all of you if their memory of you was one of laughter, joy, and compassion? Give them each a big hug, tell them you love them as they leave, and remind them to have a good time.  Trust me, if your kids are happy, you will be happy too.

With love and peace,

Renee

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